Actually, both options have their advantages. The first approach means you have a goal to achieve. It’s really about cherishing this motivation. Ultimately, the whole way of getting there is just as valuable as the end result itself. However, sometimes it makes more sense to go for a plan B. You know, more than one road leads to Rome – or to other destinations. And it doesn’t matter to meet the expectations of society. Why should anyone go to Rome to please somebody? Why should anyone buy a Gucci bag only because others have one too? It might be worth it to really ask oneself whether it’s really the own will. If not, well, there are enough alternatives waiting anyway.