The queens of self-love were probably Destiny’s Child in the nineties, with songs such as “Bootylicious”, “Independent Woman” and “Survivor”. They showed mostly women, that they should be more confident in their own body. Today, the American artist Solange (and little sister of former Destiny’s Child member Beyoncé) shows dark-skinned women and men, how to embrace their heritage, with her song “Don’t Touch My Hair“. She explains that the song points out “what it feels like to have your whole identity challenged on a daily basis, although physically touching the hair is extremely problematic!” Tracks like this one explain why self-love is something way different than narcissism. Well, it is not always easy to get to that state of mind. However, the more we discuss these kinds of topics, the more likely and easy it is for us to take it as an example. So let’s start feeling ourselves!